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Heya folks, I'm in a bit of a dilemma here. I'm messing around with my Samsung Galaxy phone my dad bought me for Christmas and the results aren't so good. As an avid iTouch/iPhone user, I'm already reluctant in switching operating system, and there are some aspects about Android that just feel more unwielding than the iOS. Like, why do I need to create a Gmail address that I'm never going to use just to download apps? And then YouTube sends messages to that Gmail address instead of my regular Hotmail one. But the biggest problem is that I can't transfer any of my apps over from my iTouch. Now these are apps that are essential to me, like a complete map of London that I can view offline or a comprehensive budget app. I wouldn't substitute them for the phone or camera features on the Galaxy, which I would seldom use anyway.

Anyway, the bottom line: I'm considering selling the phone. I neither like it nor need it. The problem is that... well... it is a Christmas gift after all. And I mentioned in an earlier journal entry that Christmas gifts should simply be accepted for what they are. I could certainly accept it if it was a music box or a magic 8-ball or some other novelty knick-knack that people give to each other on Christmas. But a smartphone is something my dad expects me to use on a regular basis. How do I tell him that his very expensive gift is something I'd rather auction on eBay? I mean, it's either that or it just gathers dust, because I'm simply not interested in using it.

You know, this whole incident gives me flashbacks to when he bought me this laptop a few Christmases ago. Right off the bat I knew it was crap, since my dad obviously doesn't know the kind of computer I need. I tried to sell it a month later and... it really strained our relationship. I'll spare you the details, but needless to say he nearly cut me off financially. I hated this laptop then and I've hated it ever since, but I'm stuck with it until I can get a replacement. And when I do, I am literally going to smash this piece of crap. Not sell it, not donate it, but SMASH it to pieces! It's caused me nothing but grief.

But back to my point, what am I going to do about this phone problem? I was planning on getting a new iPhone with my Christmas bounty before my dad showed up with this Galaxy phone, thinking it's just what his little boy needs. It really isn't, but I don't have the heart to tell him. Should I put it up for sale, or stick with a phone I hate? I don't know what to do. :(
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*Tazi-san Mar 8, 2013  Professional Digital Artist
Hey bro,

IMO: You don't want to give yourself grief and put up a false pretense. It's also not fair to the other person because they'll think they did something awesome and will likely to repeat it, thus multiplying your aggravation.

You CAN keep the unwanted gifts but to what end? As hard as it is, keep it real.

I once had to return a gift to a BOSS because it was a little too out of my orbit. But I did so respectfully and emphasized how grateful I was that they thought of me and how it made me feel good.

Do that and you did your part. The ball will then be in their court (you are not responsible for their reaction +/-).

All the best!
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:icondweezal:
This is why, in my opinion, that electronics shouldn't be given as gifts unless the person tells you exactly what they want/need.

It reminds me of the Christmas my parents bought me a point and shoot camera with no manual controls whatsoever, after I had been talking about buying myself a DSLR. I told my parents that it wasn't the right kind of camera for me, and we took the camera back to Costco and that was it.
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:iconletdragon:
Sometimes you have to be upfront and honest with your folks to get a point across.
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:iconsicarius19:
Well like you said: you have two options.

Option 1: Sell the phone on Ebay and use the money to buy an iPhone. Then when your dad asks you 'where's the phone I gave you?' you can either be straight up with him or flat out lie to him. Going with the truth, you tell him you sold it. You can explain how you weren't really compatible with it and you are accustomed to an iPhone. Going with the lie you can sell it in secret, you could make up some story about it (being lost or something).

Option 2: Keep the phone and put up with the misery. Leave it sitting while it collects dust.

Here's my answer. Just be honest with your dad. Tell him about the phone before you sell it and explain to him why you don't need it. Like you said, you don't want to upset him. But do you think selling it behind his back will make things better? (like the incident with the laptop). Ask him to trade it in for the iPhone (if possible), I don't know your dad but I'm sure he'd be a little upset but at least understanding cause you're honest about it and talked to him first before acting irrationally. Cause the last thing you need is the cold shoulder, a complete cut off in finances, and little-to no Christmas presents next year.

Sorry for coming off as a jerk but you asked for help, and I gave you my two-cents in the matter. All that is left is for you to decide.
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~baxer12 Jan 17, 2013  Hobbyist Artisan Crafter
this similar problem has happened to me in the past, unfortunately for me if i get something i dont like, i feel bad about keeping it knowing that i dont like it and return it, if it was given by a friend i wouldn't say anything but with a family member i would be honest, even if they do get upset, if i were you i would tell your dad how you feel about the smartphone, or the thought of its just going to keep you worrying.
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